Praise the Lord! There are still many Bible-Believing independent Baptist preachers and church members that hold the line by NOT compromising on the King James Bible issue, gender-specific dress standards, conservative music standards and the call for the great commission.
But, if NOT compromising on those issues, causes someone to compromise on charity, grace & Christian character, then I'd say they are a compromiser!
The danger is, if you compromise on charity, and on being gracious to others it WILL affect your preaching, the spirit at the church-house and the attitude towards others, especially this lost and dying world.
If you don't want to be a compromiser, then don't compromise on your Christian character. Character matters! It's what people see, before they learn about your doctrine!